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Welcome to the Inner Bonding section of Advice. Here you can ask your questions about any confusion you have about your Inner Bonding process, or anything else about Inner Bonding.
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Which is your highest priority - safety or love? Is it more important to you to be safe from rejection, engulfment, failure, hurt, or is it more to you to be a loving person? Are you loving until fear comes up and then retreat to your anger, withdrawal, resistance or compliance, or do you stay loving and open to learning in the face of fear? Today, notice which is unconsciously your higher priority - safety or love, and make a conscious choice.

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DAILY INSPIRATION

Which is your highest priority - safety or love? Is it more important to you to be safe from rejection, engulfment, failure, hurt, or is it more to you to be a loving person? Are you loving until fear comes up and then retreat to your anger, withdrawal, resistance or compliance, or do you stay loving and open to learning in the face of fear? Today, notice which is unconsciously your higher priority - safety or love, and make a conscious choice.

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