Daily Inspiration

Self-judgment is the way the wounded self tries to control us into doing what we "should" do, what is "right". The wounded self tells us that if we do what we should do, then we can control how others feel about us. However, believing we can control others' feelings is an illusion. All that happens when we judge ourselves is we feel badly. Notice this, without judgment!

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The authors', Margaret Paul, Ph.D., and Erika Chopich, Ph.D., in the book "Healing Your Aloneness: Finding Love and Wholeness Through Your Inner Child", provides a new and fresh understanding of the inner world. They have created a valuable roadmap for healing the child within us, and in that way becoming more emotionally free, integrated, and whole.
Walter E. Bracklemanns, M.D.

Endorsement for Diet for Divine Connection: According to the reports from thousands of individuals and numerous physicians, when people switch to a non-GMO organic diet, they experience dramatic improvements in health, clarity, concentration, weight loss, memory, and energy. Many recover from anxiety and depression. The toxins in food have robbed millions of their health and vitality. Reversing this trend sets the stage for the kind of life we all desire. Healthy food is the urgent first step. Thank you Margaret for ringing that bell.” 


Jeffrey M. Smith

"Margaret Paul is an insightful and profound teacher. She skillfully helps us to explore, heal and deepen our relationship with God."
BARBARA DE ANGELIS, PH.D.

Endorsement for Diet for Divine Connection: “Dr. Margaret Paul spent years uncovering the ways we can connect with our guidance, and how that is related to the many different kinds of nourishment (both physical and emotional) we give our bodies. In Diet For Divine Connection, you will discover how to heal resistance to physical and emotional self-care, and how to loving act on your own behalf in any moment. Margaret Paul is connected with her own internal GPS, teaches us how to do the same, and in the process, so much healing takes place. We’re fortunate to have her as our guide.”


Geneen Roth

Endorsement for Diet for Divine Connection: "Junk food and junk thoughts both have the same net effect. They clog you up and limit your vitality and your capacity for joy. In this penetrating and provocative book, Dr. Paul illumines how it’s all connected, and invites you on a pathway to greater mental, physical and spiritual wellness."


Ocean Robbin

“This wonderful book [Diet for Divine Connection] will help you align your mind-body-spirit to create a healthy, vibrant, life-affirming diet.

“Food is medicine. Food is spirit. Dr. Margaret Paul is a skilled, empathic teacher and beautiful human being. In this book, she lovingly shows you how to access your divine guidance, and how listening to your divine guidance will support you to choose the right foods for your body and restore your wholeness and well-being.” Judith Orloff MD, author of The Empath’s Survival Guide


Judith Orloff MD author of The Empath’s Survival Guide


Ask Dr. Margaret: Inner Bonding Interviews

1-hour interveiw of Dr. Margaret Paul answering members' questions. Each interview will be available for download monthly FREE to PLATINUM members of the Inner Bonding Village the month it is published, and can be downloaded free from the member site.

Our interviews go beyond the Advice section in the Inner Bonding Village.  Dr. Margaret chooses only the best questions from the month. Then she goes into considerable depth exploring the issues and how they relate to all of our lives. Dr. Margaret's in-depth answers will be very powerful for your healing process!

“Just wanted to let you know that I have tremendously benefited from the last two interviews that you have done: about mothers, and healing fears of rejection and engulfment. I've listened to them many times and got so much from them. They are awesome. Thanks a lot.”

 

 


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#2 Getting Un-Stuck #2 Getting Un-Stuck - show details...
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May, 2009
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#1 Friends and Family #1 Friends and Family - show details...
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#3 Relationship Challenges #3 Relationship Challenges - show details...
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June, 2009
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#4 The Spiritual Experience #4 The Spiritual Experience - show details...
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July, 2009
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#5 Inner Battles #5 Inner Battles - show details...
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#6 Relating Within and Without #6 Relating Within and Without - show details...
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#7 Creating Great Relationships #7 Creating Great Relationships - show details...
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#8 Parenting: Loving or Controlling #8 Parenting: Loving or Controlling - show details...
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November, 2009
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#9 Loving Relationships #9 Loving Relationships - show details...
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#10 Sexuality #10 Sexuality - show details...
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#11 Abandoning Yourself vs. Loving Yourself #11 Abandoning Yourself vs. Loving Yourself - show details...
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February, 2010
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#12 Showing Up In Conflict #12 Showing Up In Conflict - show details...
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March, 2010
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#13 Mothers Can Be Challenging #13 Mothers Can Be Challenging - show details...
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April 2010
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#14 Healing Heartbreak Without Addictions #14 Healing Heartbreak Without Addictions - show details...
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May 2010
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#15 Healing the Fear of Rejection #15 Healing the Fear of Rejection - show details...
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June 2010
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#16 Loving Yourself Around Others #16 Loving Yourself Around Others - show details...
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July 2010
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#17 Going Deeper with Inner Bonding® #17 Going Deeper with Inner Bonding® - show details...
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August, 2010
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#18 The Message of Emotions #18 The Message of Emotions - show details...
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September 2010
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#19 Beyond Addiction #19 Beyond Addiction - show details...
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October, 2010
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#20 Learning From All Our Relationships #20 Learning From All Our Relationships - show details...
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November, 2010
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#21 Heal Your Relationships With Your Partner, Friends, and Family #21 Heal Your Relationships With Your Partner, Friends, and Family - show details...
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December, 2010
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#22 Healing Food Addiction with Inner Bonding #22 Healing Food Addiction with Inner Bonding - show details...
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January, 2011
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#23 Healing Your Wounded Self #23 Healing Your Wounded Self - show details...
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February, 2011
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#24 Relationships: Loving Adult vs. Wounded Self #24 Relationships: Loving Adult vs. Wounded Self - show details...
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March 2011
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#25 The Challenge of Resistance #25 The Challenge of Resistance - show details...
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April, 2011
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#26 Is this Need or is this Love? #26 Is this Need or is this Love? - show details...
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May, 2011
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#27 The Issue of Control #27 The Issue of Control - show details...
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June, 2011
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#28 Healing Self-Judgment #28 Healing Self-Judgment - show details...
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July, 2011
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#29 The Subtlety of Intent #29 The Subtlety of Intent - show details...
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August, 2011
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#30 The Challenge of Loving Yourself #30 The Challenge of Loving Yourself - show details...
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September, 2011
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#31 Taking Responsibility for Your Self-Worth #31 Taking Responsibility for Your Self-Worth - show details...
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October, 2011
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#32 Becoming Aware of Projection #32 Becoming Aware of Projection - show details...
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November, 2011
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#33 Relationships: Speaking up or Disengaging #33 Relationships: Speaking up or Disengaging - show details...
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December, 2011
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#34 Compassion for Self #34 Compassion for Self - show details...
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January, 2012
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#35 Taking Responsibility for Your Feelings #35 Taking Responsibility for Your Feelings - show details...
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February, 2012
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#36 Becoming a Loving Parent #36 Becoming a Loving Parent - show details...
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March, 2012
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#37 Are You Loving Yourself or Abandoning Yourself? #37 Are You Loving Yourself or Abandoning Yourself? - show details...
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April, 2012
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#38 Taking Loving Action #38 Taking Loving Action - show details...
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#39 The Challenge of Intimacy #39 The Challenge of Intimacy - show details...
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June, 2012
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#40 Relationship Systems #40 Relationship Systems - show details...
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#41 Relationships and Self-Abandonment #41 Relationships and Self-Abandonment - show details...
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August, 2012
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#42 Relationship Questions and Answers #42 Relationship Questions and Answers - show details...
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September, 2012
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#43 Underlying Issues and Concepts #43 Underlying Issues and Concepts - show details...
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October, 2012
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#44 Life and Relationship Questions #44 Life and Relationship Questions - show details...
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November, 2012
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#45 Taking Responsibility For Yourself #45 Taking Responsibility For Yourself - show details...
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December, 2012
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#46 Spiritual Questions, Spiritual Connection #46 Spiritual Questions, Spiritual Connection - show details...
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January, 2013
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#47 Staying Connected With Yourself #47 Staying Connected With Yourself - show details...
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February, 2013
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#48 Love Addiction #48 Love Addiction - show details...
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March, 2013
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#49 The Challenge of Being All We Can Be #49 The Challenge of Being All We Can Be - show details...
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April, 2013
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#50 Power and Control Issues #50 Power and Control Issues - show details...
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May, 2013
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#51 Loving Yourself, Loving Others #51 Loving Yourself, Loving Others - show details...
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June, 2013
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#52 You and Your Relationships #52 You and Your Relationships - show details...
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July, 2013
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#53 Managing Fear, Rejection and Overwhelm #53 Managing Fear, Rejection and Overwhelm - show details...
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August, 2013
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#54 Creating Loving Relationships with Self and Others #54 Creating Loving Relationships with Self and Others - show details...
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September, 2013
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#55 Managing Conflict #55 Managing Conflict - show details...
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October, 2013
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#56 Connection With Self and Others #56 Connection With Self and Others - show details...
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November, 2013
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#57 Learning Through Relationships #57 Learning Through Relationships - show details...
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December, 2013
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#58 Life and Relationship Questions #58 Life and Relationship Questions - show details...
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January, 2014
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#59 Actions and Reactions #59 Actions and Reactions - show details...
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February, 2014
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#60 Ah! Relationships! #60 Ah! Relationships! - show details...
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March, 2014
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#61 Learning Through Our Challenges #61 Learning Through Our Challenges - show details...
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April, 2014
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#62 Tweaking Interpersonal Skills #62 Tweaking Interpersonal Skills - show details...
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May, 2014
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#63 Loving Yourself #63 Loving Yourself - show details...
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#64 Life and Love #64 Life and Love - show details...
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#65 Loving Yourself Around Others #65 Loving Yourself Around Others - show details...
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August, 2014
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#66 Loving and Learning #66 Loving and Learning - show details...
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September, 2014
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#67 Getting Clear #67 Getting Clear - show details...
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October, 2014
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#68 Life Challenges #68 Life Challenges - show details...
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November, 2014
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#69 Acceptance, Trust and Healing #69 Acceptance, Trust and Healing - show details...
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December, 2014
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#70 Connection, Clarity, Control #70 Connection, Clarity, Control - show details...
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January, 2015
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#71 Loving Self-Care #71 Loving Self-Care - show details...
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February 2015
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#72 Relationships and the Healing Journey #72 Relationships and the Healing Journey - show details...
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March, 2015
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#73 It's All About Relationships #73 It's All About Relationships - show details...
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Self-judgment is the way the wounded self tries to control us into doing what we "should" do, what is "right". The wounded self tells us that if we do what we should do, then we can control how others feel about us. However, believing we can control others' feelings is an illusion. All that happens when we judge ourselves is we feel badly. Notice this, without judgment!

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