Step Three of Inner Bonding

Dialogue with Your Wounded Self and Core Self

Discover the thoughts/false beliefs and actions from your wounded self that may be causing your fear and pain.
Release anger and pain in appropriate ways, doing the Inner Bonding Anger Process (video) (article), and/or allowing yourself to cry.
Learn about the past that created the false beliefs.
Nurture your existential core Self feelings of loneliness, helplessness over others and events, sorrow and grief.
Explore your core Self and what brings you joy.

Move on to Step 4.

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When being loving, we are not grasping, demanding, needy or clingy, because love has nothing to do with getting or taking. We give freely, to ourselves and to others. We also receive graciously when the gift is freely given. When being unloving, we may try to manipulate a gift - whether it be of time, money, attention, emotional support, approval, sex or affection - but when we are loving we know that a gift not freely given is not really a gift. Notice when you are being loving or unloving.

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Inner Bonding is a proven six-step self-healing process that has been developed and optimized over 30 years by Dr. Margaret Paul, Ph.D. and Dr. Erika Chopich, Ph.D. It’s comprehensive. It’s practical. And it always works when you do it.

Inner Bonding empowers you to self-heal the root causes of anxiety, depression, addictions, failed relationships and many other problems that inhibit your personal and spiritual growth and satisfaction. It teaches you how to love yourself rather than continue to abandon yourself, how to move beyond emotional dependency and attain emotional freedom, and how to heal the underlying control issues stemming from self-abandonment.