Step Three of Inner Bonding

Dialogue with Your Wounded Self and Core Self

Discover the thoughts/false beliefs and actions from your wounded self that may be causing your fear and pain.
Release anger and pain in appropriate ways, doing the Inner Bonding Anger Process (video) (article), and/or allowing yourself to cry.
Learn about the past that created the false beliefs.
Nurture your existential core Self feelings of loneliness, helplessness over others and events, sorrow and grief.
Explore your core Self and what brings you joy.

Move on to Step 4.

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