Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?...The Workbook

By Drs. Jordan & Margaret Paul

CompCare, 1989; Hazelden, Center City, MN., 1994

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This workbook goes deeply in helping you understand the differences between the intent to learn and the intent to protect - within yourself and within conflict in relationships. There are many different exercises to understand your intent, as well as to understand the expectations you might have with your partner, children, and friends. Working through the workbooks helps you to more deeply understand intent.

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DAILY INSPIRATION

Self-judgment is the way the wounded self tries to control us into doing what we "should" do, what is "right". The wounded self tells us that if we do what we should do, then we can control how others feel about us. However, believing we can control others' feelings is an illusion. All that happens when we judge ourselves is we feel badly. Notice this, without judgment!

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Inner Bonding is a proven six-step self-healing process that has been developed and optimized over 30 years by Dr. Margaret Paul, Ph.D. and Dr. Erika Chopich, Ph.D. It’s comprehensive. It’s practical. And it always works when you do it.

Inner Bonding empowers you to self-heal the root causes of anxiety, depression, addictions, failed relationships and many other problems that inhibit your personal and spiritual growth and satisfaction. It teaches you how to love yourself rather than continue to abandon yourself, how to move beyond emotional dependency and attain emotional freedom, and how to heal the underlying control issues stemming from self-abandonment.