Welcome - we are glad you came for help!
We are sure you know that this is a fairly common addiction. We are pleased that you have the courage to come here, and we hope that you are ready to begin a healing process.
Research indicates that happy people create happy relationships, not the other way around! If you believe you need a relationship to be happy, or the "right" relationship, you may stay stuck being unhappy. Unhappy people either don't get into relationships, or often create unhappy relationships. Put your energy into making yourself happy and then see what happens!
By Dr. Margaret Paul