Getting Love vs. Being Loving

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Many of us grew up believing that getting love from others is what makes up happy, and creates a sense of worth and safety. You might be spending a lot of energy trying to get love, not realizing that everything you do to get love pushes love away.

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Welcome conflict as an opportunity to challenge yourself to learn what Spirit is trying to teach you about love. If you embrace conflict with a deep desire to learn rather than an intent to protect against that which you fear, you will discover the gems within the conflict.

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Welcome conflict as an opportunity to challenge yourself to learn what Spirit is trying to teach you about love. If you embrace conflict with a deep desire to learn rather than an intent to protect against that which you fear, you will discover the gems within the conflict.

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