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Daily Inspiration

How much of your behavior with others is to try to control getting love, approval or sympathy, or to control avoiding anger and disapproval? How often do you whine, complain, pout, explain, defend, debate, attack, judge, threaten, blame, withdraw, shame, and so on? You will always want to get approval or avoid disapproval when you are not being loving to yourself. Today, notice this without judgement, with curiosity and compassion for this controlling, wounded part of you.

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"It felt so very safe and each person was so full of love and support for each other. It was a place to feel your pain." Los Angeles Workshop, Sept. 1999
Robyne Harrington

"I really enjoyed this workshop.  It was very informative & helpful in helping me to overcome my 'victim' mentality and helping me to take responsibility in my life for my own feelings & happiness." Kripalu Workshop, 9/08
Susan White

"I found the Inner Bonding concept to be an idea I can use to change my poor thinking and negative habits. Unlike 'regular' therapy, this gives you a hammer and nail to do some work, to "see" what we do inside ourselves to keep us stuck, and a way to change it." Rowe, MA, 4/04
Tom Hillenbrand

'This was a great experience for me.  Although I've been familiar with the concepts for a while and practicing on my own, I found greater clarification and understanding of the process.  I feel energized and optimistic about my journey moving forward.' Los Angeles Workshop, 1/09
Kim Taff

I feel that this workshop was life-changing.  Finally, after years of therapy and reading every book I could get my hands on, I have a tool that I can use on a daily basis that will help me grow to become the person I want to be.  The process and theory behind Inner Bonding just makes complete sense to me.  I feel that I can finally, FINALLY make some progress on the road to being loving and accepting of myself and creating boundaries that are loving to me while not being controlling to others.  Thank You!! Can't wait to read your books and take a class.


Elizabeth Williamson

'The Inner Bonding workshop far exceeded my expectations. I now understand how I can develop the internal dialogue and loving behaviors to feel safe, secure, valued and loved, without the need of external approval, validation or support. I'm excited to see how I grow through practicing Inner Bonding. Thank you! I loved this workshop and you! Grateful for this process.' Southern California Weekend Workshop, 4.13


Maya Naik

Work with Dr. Margaret Paul

Work With Dr. Margaret Paul

 

Dr. Margaret Paul consults on the phone and on Skype with both individuals and couples. If you are interested in Inner Bonding facilitation with Dr. Margaret, or just want some information, you can contact our Inner Bonding assistant, Valerie Lippincott, at 888-6INNERBOND (888-646-6372), or email her at valerie@innerbonding.com. Valerie will be happy to help you and answer any questions you have.

How I work with my clients:

My goal with my clients is to help them move into a deep sense of self-worth and personal power. I encourage them not to give me authority over them - not to put me up on a pedestal, but instead to learn to trust themselves, to become their own guru. I care deeply about my clients and I always do all I can to support them in supporting their highest good. Because I can see beyond their woundedness into their beautiful soul, I can help them to move beyond their erroneous beliefs about themselves and embrace who they really are as an incredible child of God. I do nothing to encourage their dependency on me. In my view, any therapist that supports dependency isn’t ethical. Instead, I help them to develop their access to their own higher guidance. In my 48 years of working with people, I’ve seen that there is no true healing without a spiritual connection, and traditional psychotherapy doesn’t help clients create this.

I have no agenda for my clients other than what they want for themselves, which enables me to be very patient and non-judgmental with them. This helps them to be patient and non-judgmental with themselves, which is vital for their healing.

I am warm and caring with them, but I don’t get involved with them on a personal level. I’m very transparent with them, often sharing experiences from my own life as a way of helping them feel safe in being vulnerable. Creating inner safety and safety between us is vitally important, but at the same time I’m very confrontative and straight-forward regarding what I see happening with them.

I work primarily by allowing my guidance to come through me and also allowing their guidance to come through me. I often receive a huge amount of information about the client this way, often with holographic pictures of their issues and how to help them.

I work very successfully with individuals, couples, friendships, family relationships and business partnerships