Getting Love vs. Being Loving
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Many of us grew up believing that getting love from others is what makes up happy, and creates a sense of worth and safety. You might be spending a lot of energy trying to get love, not realizing that everything you do to get love pushes love away.
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One of the hardest feelings to feel is that of helplessness over others - over others being mean, judgmental, rejecting and not seeing you or valuing you. Most people would rather get angry, or judge themselves or others, rather than feel this very painful feeling. This feeling needs your deep compassion, which you can give yourself only when you fully accept that you are powerless over how others' feel and behave.
By Dr. Margaret Paul
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Dealing With Narcissism - Your Own and Others By Dr. Margaret Paul | ||
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The Inner Bonding Introductory Lecture - Video By Dr. Margaret Paul | ||
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Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By My Kids? By Drs. Jordan and Margaret Paul | ||
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#70 Connection, Clarity, Control By Dr. Margaret Paul | ||
