Ask your spiritual Guidance (whatever that is for you): What is the truth about the thoughts/false beliefs you may have uncovered in Step Three?
Ask: What is the loving behavior toward your Inner Child in this situation? What is in your highest good? What is kind to yourself?
Open and allow the answers to come through you in words, pictures, feelings, dreams, in talking with another, or in reading a book. The answers may not come immediately, but if you have a sincere desire to learn, they will come.
Love has no conditions upon which it is withdrawn. It is steadfast, even when we do not receive what we want and others behave in ways that we do not like. Approval comes and goes, but Love is, by definition, that which is unconditional. Strive today for unconditional love with yourself and others.
By Dr. Margaret Paul