Hosted Chat
The hosted chat is hosted by Dr. Margaret or an Inner Bonding facilitator. Often a subject, such as relationships, addictions, boundaries, or parenting is chosen for the topic. Other times, it is open to any discussion.
Times: The times posted are all Pacific Time.
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Daily Inspiration
Controlling behavior is neither good nor bad - it just does not serve us well. It was part of our survival as children and now is causing much of our pain. Noticing your controlling behavior with yourself and others with compassion and curiosity rather than with judgment, puts you on the fast lane to healing.
By Dr. Margaret Paul
"The Inner Bonding Intensive is a life-changing experience in which
participants learn what it truly means to care for ones self, as well as how to
recognize when one is not caring for himself or herself. It's packed with
information, process and practice, and you leave with a deep understanding of what it
means to truly love yourself now and in the future." Intensive, Lucerne Valley, CA, 7/05
Kathy Norman
To say I’m grateful is doing the Intensive a disservice. Grateful feels like a “typical" thing to say and NOTHING about this weekend felt typical. It was not the “same old therapy”. I have been in therapy at different times in my life and the same issues were always discussed...again and again and again. And while traditional therapy is a brave step for someone to take when they need help, it just wasn’t enough for me - something was still missing. Inner Bonding is like finding that last missing piece to a puzzle! It is logical, practical and results oriented. It is a tool that works. Already today I was able to catch quite a few false beliefs! I listened for them and stopped when I heard them. I took the time to know where they came from and I allowed myself to feel the hurt that I know was damaging to me as a child. Then I let myself know that it wasn’t the truth about me and finally, I let myself feel what it feels like when you are loving to yourself. I know that I can and will do these few simple steps to retrain my brain to know love. It WILL be my sacred privilege to take care of and love myself...my soul…my essence. Thank you Margaret. You are a miracle and I will be forever in your debt. Southern California Advanced Intensive - 2.15
Chris Lieber
Even though some of the participants were beginning with Inner Bonding I have learned a lot. It would now be easier for me to guide someone who would wish to use this wonderful process in order to improve in self-love, in his/her own life, and in relations with other people.
I have also learned a number of things related to facilitation just by observing Margaret. It is sometimes important to ask questions upon questions in order to help the person discover the root of the problem.
I think the facilitation I do with some people will now improve.
Michel Côté
'Knowing that at any moment, I can choose to be loving to myself, regardless of what is happening around me, brings such a sense of peace and deep gratitude. This is the best gift I've ever been given and the best part is that I gave it to myself!' Colorado Intensive, 10.10
Michele Tenor
"It's been several years that I've been working with Margaret & several Intensives I've attended too; and each time I have learned to go deeper into the Inner Bonding process. It is for me like peeling out different levels of my resistance and moving more & more into the intention to learn. This time I've learned more about my intention to control and my desire to change it." Advanced Intensive, N.Y. 11/07
Kashia Coulouvrat
'The Intensive was a fast track pass to some deeper healing. It was very helpful to listen to the other people working with Margaret. Not only did it give you great insight to yourself, but also bring up history to work on. It was enlightening, a deep learning of truth. I learned to not just love myself, but how to do it. I felt it, discovered it, and watch it grow. People transformed before my eyes.' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.12
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