Hosted Chat
The hosted chat is hosted by Dr. Margaret or an Inner Bonding facilitator. Often a subject, such as relationships, addictions, boundaries, or parenting is chosen for the topic. Other times, it is open to any discussion.
Times: The times posted are all Pacific Time.
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Daily Inspiration
Today, notice, without judgment, the various ways you try to control your feelings, others and outcomes. Do you get angry, blame, give yourself up, resist, worry and ruminate? Do these choices actually give you control or do they just make you feel anxious? Noticing can give you new choices.
By Dr. Margaret Paul
"I found the Inner Bonding Intensive to be a safe place for me to process issues that were ready to be faced. The gentle guidance and loving care of Margaret was pivotal in releasing these issues." Colorado Intensive, 6/08
Linda Agnello
"My fourth intensive has offered me the challenge of fully embracing, enjoying and loving my essence, my little girl. Understanding how I control others and my environment using shame/guilt is an insight that I finally fully comprehend. The resistance I put up is so obvious to me now. I had no idea how much I controlled any love coming from within me or from others. The love I feel for others' little [inner] children was always kept from me since 'I didn't deserve love.' Now I clearly understand how this false belief is a way that I use to control the pain of abandonment. Now I look at my little girl's photo and think 'You mean she deserves all the love I so easily give to others?' I'm just getting used to the idea - could it really be true? Seeing the beauty in others and none in myself has been a way of life for me - now I want to put as much passion into loving my [inner]little girl as I've given to Tim's [her son] little boy and all my client's [inner] little kids. Little Jeanette has been waiting far too long to be loved unconditionally. Thanks to all you bring to the light for me and others to finally see, Margie!!!!" Los Angeles, May, 2000
Jeanette Boerger
"Finally, after years of having relationships end the same way with the same
problem (intense fighting and thinking the other person is the problem) and
ending up alone, I finally was able to see myself and how I was contributing to
the problem or how my way or being was activating or contributing to the
result of separation. I see that I was addicted to anger, and I was looking
outside of myself to validate who I am. I know and will take the time to love and
take care of myself, and that anger is my addiction and not the solution." Couples Intensive, Santa Fe, 8/04
Michelle Ota
'After 20 years of searching, researching, reading, workshops, trainings, retreats and healing modalities, Inner Bonding was the gigantic missing puzzle piece in the center of the puzzle. It's the answer for me.' Colorado Intensive, 4.12
Karen Dean
I learned how important it is to trust God and invite him in every time my Inner Child feels unsafe.
Ann Rosell
"I felt very safe. I had my cute and fun sides reflected back to me. I needed to see these authentic reflections in order to see myself. I leave this intensive knowing I have gained a great deal. After all the atoms realign themselves, I will be much more whole. I feel this process occurring. I feel more centered, more joyful and hopeful that I can leave here an deal with important challenges and relationships in a healthier way." Lucerne Valley, CA June, 2000
Leitha Spetzler




