Hosted Chat
The hosted chat is hosted by Dr. Margaret or an Inner Bonding facilitator. Often a subject, such as relationships, addictions, boundaries, or parenting is chosen for the topic. Other times, it is open to any discussion.
Times: The times posted are all Pacific Time.
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Daily Inspiration
Do you feel alone? Are you having problems with your spiritual connection? The intent to control others - with anger, blame, compliance, resistance or withdrawal - cuts off your connection with your Guidance. So does the intent to control your feelings with too much food, junk food, alcohol and drugs. Today, notice your intent - to control your feelings, others and outcomes, or to learn about loving yourself and others.
By Dr. Margaret Paul
"Witnessing the process is sometimes just as powerful as being in it. I experienced this increasingly strong after I had lost my fear of taking care of myself while being with others. I found that compassion was growing in everyone, the more pain and fear we were able to access and heal. When said with compassion, there were always beautiful contributions to someone else's work. Access and heal, there are two keywords for me. To me, this is the most accessible and healing work I have ever done. A lot of psychological processes focus on analyzing and understanding, but there was always a missing link. It is only through the intent to love and learn that it makes sense to go with the pain of a deep emotional understanding. It is also the first time that stepping back into normal life has not been difficult. Inner Bonding is everywhere around us and can be done at any time of the day. Sometimes it's a piece of cake and sometimes it takes time and energy when painful issues come up. Feeling my own resistance making place for the real feeling underneath is a glorious moment when pain and joy come together. I will be back soon with the next bundle of experiences!"
Margarita Galen
"The second time around has been extremely valuable, I've had a real experience to know the value of unconditional love, living my truth and that I'm never really alone. I'm so thankful that I listened to Phyllis - my guidance - and came here even though I really didn't know why I was coming. As Colin says "this shit works". As a final note: the second time around is better because I'm better." Lucerne Valley Intensive, CA - May 2002
Linda Joanou
Even though some of the participants were beginning with Inner Bonding I have learned a lot. It would now be easier for me to guide someone who would wish to use this wonderful process in order to improve in self-love, in his/her own life, and in relations with other people.
I have also learned a number of things related to facilitation just by observing Margaret. It is sometimes important to ask questions upon questions in order to help the person discover the root of the problem.
I think the facilitation I do with some people will now improve.
Michel Côté
'All my life I always felt something was wrong with me and I felt very alone. I tried all kinds of therapies throughout my life (I'm 58 now), everything from encounter groups, primal screaming to Hakomi, A&D Treatment center, Terri Kellogg, Intensive ACOA treatment, Hoffman Quadrinity Process to Avatar to private therapists and counsellors, to 12 Step groups to religions, and A Course in Miracles. Although I felt relief from all of them and it kept me going, I was always left with me, the woman who never feels good enough, feels alone and lonely, very knowledgeable and educated but still unworthy and did I say alone and lonely? Yeah, that continued. I didn't know how to end this torture of being me. I blamed it on my abusive childhood and most of all on me for being a loser and screw up. Inner Bonding is the 1st therapeutic intervention that has taught me how to love myself. It is a 'simple process', but not easy. But now I know I have a model of recovery of self love that does work and will work if I work it.' Colorado Intensive, 10.11
Barbara Green
"I came to the intensive seeking the keys I needed to go forward on my spiritual journey of reclaiming and healing my inner child, of bonding my soul and my Higher Self. In these 5 days I was helped to see particular parts of my inner experience, to which I've been previously asleep. I feel as if new pieces of my puzzle have been revealed, have been put into place. I can see another section of the picture, and feel empowered to go forward into new chapters. It has been priceless to experience this for myself, and to share with the friends I met their own similar, yet unique experiences. I have not encountered as powerful a healing technique anywhere else!" Lucerne Valley, CA June, 2000
Patrice Kaufman
'The hood has been pulled off. The course has allowed me to see how my wounded child inside has been in charge and how it has suppressed my true self from loving others and myself. The knowledge I have gained from Inner Bonding has become the missing piece of the puzzle of wholeness allowing me to operate as a responsible loving adult. I was intimidated by the process and then relieved by the simplicity and finally amazed by the results. I would recommend this to anyone open for change.' Colorado Intensive 4.14
Tony Boe
