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"A life transforming experience for me to uncover all those hiding incidents that held me back from having an inner sense of worth - and meaning of love." Dolores, CO Intensive 4.13

"I came to the Intensive wanting a refresher on the tools and to begin the healing process in a
few key areas. I experienced a real shift doing the work, and afterward I noticed I felt much freer
from my own self-judgment, as my Loving Adult began giving my Inner Child the validation
she truly needs. An Intensive offers something I couldn’t get from reading alone…real practice
with the Inner Bonding steps and powerful insight from witnessing others and recognizing my
own patterns in the process." March 2026 Intensive

'Being new to Inner Bonding, I was really nervous about what to expect, what I'd say, all of the control I was in denial of even having.  My therapist said it would be life changing, so I was excited but hesitant. I can hardly even put into words the depth of the learning, the love I feel for myself and the other people here who shared, trusted, let go and helped me 'see me' in a new way.  To give yourself the gift of an Intensive, is by far one of the deepest, most loving thing I believe a person can do.  Take the risk and let the Spirit bring you wherever you need to go.' Colorado Intensive 6.12

"I have just completed the Intensive, and it has been truly life changing for me. I have never previously been able to identify any false beliefs I hold; probably because I have been so busy engaging in self-abandoning behaviours. Through the Intensive, I have started listening to my feelings/my Inner Child, recognized many false beliefs and self-abandoning behaviours I was not aware of, and I have met my Higher Guidance. I have done so by working with Dr Paul directly and by paying attention to my Inner Child and Wounded Self while witnessing other participants work. I have tried other therapeutic modalities that were all helpful to a degree but Inner Bonding and the Intensive helped me ‘go deeper’ quickly and made me see clearly. What’s even more mind-blowing is that some of the modalities I have practiced on and off for a few years (EFT tapping, CBT) are suddenly working well when they previously did not help, or only helped a little. I believe this is because I am now practicing EFT/CBT with a different intention behind it; when previously my Wounded Self was in charge, I am now practicing them from my Loving Adult Self/Higher Guidance. The love and support from other participants, Dr Paul and the three Facilitators in Training during the Intensive was overwhelming – initially it felt scary seeing so many strangers on the screen but the fear quickly went away, and I have shared things in the group that I have never spoken to anyone about before. Please don’t hesitate – the Intensive will change your life. The Intensive has been hard work/challenging as I experienced many painful feelings and wounded self beliefs but staying open to learning to love myself got me through to seeing unbelievable life changing benefits."
March 25th 2026 Intensive.

"This has been a GREAT learning experience. Not only learning technique, but more importantly learning about myself and who I am and what I need. I feel I am better prepared to walk though life, and am actually looking forward to using my new skills and to continue growing." Ossining, NY - August 25-29, 2000
Mark Wishner

This intensive was a deeply immersive experience, the likes of which I've never encountered, and I say that having recently completed the informative 8 week Inner Bonding Course.

I found it extremely helpful to be immersed in the Inner Bonding process for several days, given our tendency to be deeply attached to false beliefs that keep us stuck in painful loops of experience.

The role modeling and demonstrations I observed during the intensive continue to ripple out into my experience and inform me as I integrate and apply the methods of Inner Bonding.

Even though many resonate with  the "All You Need is Love" message the Beatles put into song, few know how to actually embody that truth, and many dismiss the idea all together, declaring it's not safe to be a loving presence in this world. Dr. Paul's support and guidance in developing our Loving Adult inspires and clearly demonstrates the "how to" is indeed within our grasp for those of us who are willing.