THE ULTIMATE COLLECTION
The ONLY Self-Help, Self-Love Program You'll Ever Need to Create a Joyful, Peaceful, Fulfilled Life!
Self-love is the most powerful determinant of a good life—one of contentment, joy and inner peace.
Because when you have self-love, you have agency over your emotional well-being.
- You know what you need to do in order to feel more content and at ease, and you don’t hesitate to do it
- You trust yourself and your instincts
- You set good boundaries with others
- You make sound decisions based on your highest good
Thirty-five years ago, my best friend and colleague, Dr. Erika Chopich, and I, developed a process that we taught to clients through workshops or one-on-one sessions to help stop the painful, dysfunctional patterns that kept them stuck and unhappy in life.
This process has since helped hundreds of thousands of clients find emotional relief and develop REAL self-love. It helped them take more loving care of themselves, and make better decisions for their life.
It helped them where all other therapies, modalities, and processes failed.
I often hear that this process is of Inner Bonding the single most transformational tool in their lives and relationships.
As you may or may not know, Inner Bonding is a 6-step, real-time process that helps you uncover the hidden reasons why you’re unhappy, anxious, or having conflict with someone.
In the Complete Self-Love: The Ultimate Collection, you’ll get a master-level instruction on Inner Bonding, what it is, how to do it, and interactive tools that will help you apply this process in your everyday life to develop self-love.
I’ve designed this particular combination of programs to help you get the most out of the Inner Bonding process in three ways:
It helps you learn the Inner Bonding process and then practice it in real-time.Whether you’ve never heard of Inner Bonding before, or have been reading about it for years, this Ultimate Collection will help you become a master practitioner of the 6-step process. You’ll learn about every single aspect of this process in detail, why it works and what pitfalls to avoid. But more importantly, you’ll have access to an online tool called SelfQuest that allows you to actually practice Inner Bonding each time you’re feeling anything other than at peace.
Practicing Inner Bonding can be challenging, not because it’s complicated, but because our life-long conditioning prevents us from turning to self-love as the default remedy for any painful feeling. Or, we may know how to do Inner Bonding and we turn to it when we’re feeling anxious, but we shortcut the steps, rendering the process incomplete and ineffective.
This Ultimate Collection makes it easy to practice Inner Bonding the most therapeutic way, and as often as you need it. You’ll do it through an interactive online process in the included membership (SelfQuest) that prompts you to name your feelings, examine your thoughts and false beliefs, and then guides you through the 6 steps of Inner Bonding. It’s like getting personal coaching each time you feel anxious, frustrated or just don't know how to handle a situation that comes up. And it’s available to you 24/7 in the comfort of your home.
You can review or revisit your sessions and ensure you’ve followed through on your loving actions, which is critical to transforming negative feelings into self-love.
It’s personalized to help you uncover the important aspects of your unique personal history and beliefs. SelfQuest also offers powerful questionnaires that will help you remember the pertinent details of your upbringing and past history, so you can uncover the origins of your underlying false beliefs that are driving your thoughts, feelings, and actions. These are questions that can elicit memories from the recesses of your unconscious, leading to powerful revelations about how your beliefs were formed.
These beliefs can be very difficult, if not impossible—to uncover without this type of outside guidance.
Once you uncover your unique hidden beliefs, you’ll be able to revise your beliefs based on what you know to be the truth, and in doing so, have greater agency over your thoughts and actions.
- It answers your pressing questions and offers compassion, caring, and support when you need it. When working through any self-help program, there are times when you get stuck, and need something explained or clarified. This Ultimate Collection includes that support from the Inner Bonding community. You don’t have to do this alone! You’ll connect with others who are also healing, learning and growing.
This Ultimate Collection is the only self-help, self-love program you’ll EVER need to transform your life, improve your relationships, and have a greater sense of joy and peace, every day.
Investing in all these programs individually would be expensive and out of reach financially for many.
But because I’ve created this Ultimate Collection, you have the opportunity to get ALL of these components together for HALF OFF the regular price than if you were to purchase each of these programs and memberships separately.
Here’s what’s included in the Ultimate Collection:
INNER BONDING FUNDAMENTALS
An 80-minute Introductory Video Lecture by Dr. Margaret Paul + a 7-Day Inner Bonding Course
In this video, you’ll learn about my background and how it resulted in developing the Inner Bonding process with my friend and colleague, Dr. Erika Chopich. You’ll get an overview of the Inner Bonding steps, and in 7-Day Inner Bonding Course will fast-track you to understanding the process, so you can start practicing it right away.
DAILY COACHING AND INSPIRATION
Love Yourself: A 30-Day, At-Home Inner Bonding Experience
In this 30-day program, you’ll get in-depth, comprehensive training on all aspects of Inner Bonding. Each day for 30 days, you’ll receive an email, often with a video, an audio visualization, and a written explanation of that day’s focus. You’ll learn why Inner Bonding works, how to practice it, what the common challenges are, and how to overcome them.
You’ll also learn:
- How your Wounded Self keeps you stuck in your painful programming by attempting to avoid feeling pain by controlling others.
- How to shift your intent from wanting to avoid your feelings to learning more about yourself and others, which is always the first transformative step from feeling like a victim of life to feeling empowered and peaceful.
- How to access your Higher Guidance, so you can make decisions that are more loving to yourself and in your highest good.
- How to dialogue with your Inner Child to discover the very good reasons why you’re feeling, behaving or reacting a certain way.
- How what you eat affects your overall health and your access to your Higher Guidance.
- And much more.
HIGHLY CUSTOMIZED TO YOU
Self Quest (6 Month Membership)
Simply mastering the process of Inner Bonding alone can transform your entire life when you practice it regularly, but I’ve also included another program in the Ultimate Collection that supports your learning in ways that would be difficult to get outside one-on-one psychotherapy.SelfQuest helps you uncover the origins and scope of your limiting or false beliefs. It also helps you recognize the ways in which you are attempting to avoid pain by controlling what others do or feel about you (and therefore making your emotional pain worse, not better).
In SelfQuest, you’ll go through special questionnaires that help you uncover aspects of your past and present relationships (with your parents, caregivers, and partners). These questionnaires will reveal WHY you have the beliefs you do, which will help you understand how your Wounded Self developed.
Being able to identify your false beliefs and how they developed makes the process of Inner Bonding so much easier, and resolves your inner conflict faster.
Additionally, there’s an Inner Bonding component In SelfQuest that takes you through the 6 steps in real-time. With this tool, you can practice Inner Bonding as often as you need to, and your answers are recorded for your personal review.
SUPPORT, CARING, AND COMPASSION
IB Village (6 Month Membership)
Just because it’s a self-guided program, doesn’t mean you are by yourself in this! You’ll get support, caring, and compassion from others going through the same journey. There’s a whole “village” of people on the same path as you, yearning to feel more connected in their relationships and more at peace with themselves, and this community can help you stay motivated and feel supported every step of the way.
Through your membership to the IB Village, you can connect with others who are also learning, healing and growing, and receive the help you need anytime. Get answers to your questions, ask for help, offer feedback about your experiences, and feel connected to others who are experiencing the same life challenges.
The IB Village is a community of strong, vulnerable, kind, honest people working on creating a healthy life, just like you.
Self-love radically transforms your relationships, health, career and emotional wellbeing.
When you have self-love, you feel courageous and strong because you know that whatever happens in life, you know you can handle it.
You have amicable and loving relationships because you take responsibility for your own feelings, and you don’t take things personally.
You feel healthy and energetic because you treat your body with respect. You know what you feel, and can affect your feelings by choosing your thoughts.
You know what your dreams are, and you pursue them, because you’re not ruled by fear.
This is why self-love is such a powerful thing. It can affect your emotions, your relationships, your career, and even your financial standing.
And when things don’t turn out the way you’d hoped, the way they sometimes do in life? You trust it will all work out the way it needs to, and you move on.
You feel safe and can access joy, even in the midst of challenges or setbacks.
Life flows. Love is effortless. You have a sense of purpose.
EVERYTHING is easier when you have self-love.
Here’s What Others Have Said About Their Experience With Components of This Program:
You’d Have to Spend Years in Therapy, Spending Thousands of Dollars to Get Anywhere CLOSE to The Kind of Results You’ll Get from This Ultimate Collection
Normally, if you wanted help in dealing with your painful feelings, or your relationship conflicts, and wanted anywhere close to the kind of results you’ll get in the Complete Self-Love: The Ultimate Collection,
And even then, you may not get the results you’ll get from this Collection.
That’s because, in my professional experience, traditional psychotherapy often falls short or downright fails to address the painful feelings, recurring conflicts and “stuckness” individuals experience when they don’t know how to access self-love. And traditional psychotherapy doesn’t teach you how to access a spiritual source of love, comfort, and truth.
This is why I co-developed the Inner Bonding process so many years ago. After practicing traditional psychotherapy for 17 years, and having gone to therapy myself as a younger person, I wasn’t happy with the results—for myself OR for my clients.
I simply wasn’t finding the answers.
It wasn’t until I learned how to connect with a spiritual source of guidance through Inner Bonding, and then taught that process to others, that I finally found something that worked.
The Complete Self-Love: The Ultimate Collection is everything you need to be able to do Inner Bonding and gain self-love. When you practice the process and use the tools in the Ultimate Collection, you will finally understand what self-love really is, how to cultivate it, and how important it is in life. As a result:
Your relationships will improve…
You’ll have peace and joy far more often…
You’ll be more successful at almost anything you want to do…
Everything will be better when you have self-love.
Margaret Paul, Ph.D.